As I sit outside under the "Thinking Tree" in my yard, the sun bright and cheery, the dog rolling around in the grass and the cat eating the grass (my furbabies are weirdos), it's hard to believe the wedding is less than 2 weeks away. Everything feels so ordinary. An ordinary, late spring day, with … Continue reading Goodbye My Twenties: The Final Countdown
Goodbye My Twenties: The Job Search
We've all been there - the hours spent bent over your computer filling out applications, tweaking your resume, and carefully crafting cover letters. Trying to get a new position can feel like a new job all by itself! And then there's the stress of waiting. You put in five applications in a week and only … Continue reading Goodbye My Twenties: The Job Search
Goodbye My Twenties: Starting Over
Sometimes life takes an unexpected turn, and the thing that you thought was stable and reliable vanishes right before your eyes. You didn't see it coming, so you weren't prepared. Its the lack of preparedness that shakes you down to your core, not the event itself. You struggle to comprehend how and why, because the … Continue reading Goodbye My Twenties: Starting Over
Goodbye My Twenties: The Truth About Weddings
I feel like I’ve reached a point in my life where every decision feels like a big deal (which is making it even harder to stick to my new year’s resolution of being less indecisive). Should I grab that pack of cookies for a snack at work? I don’t know, they’re a little pricey…I could … Continue reading Goodbye My Twenties: The Truth About Weddings
Goodbye My Twenties: When You Take Away the Fluff…
I recently accomplished a goal, one I had been working on for many years: I finished a complete first draft of my book (or novella, at this point). This felt like such a tremendous triumph that I excitedly passed the project onto my sister for editing. Then reality started to set in. Fluff, fluff, fluff, … Continue reading Goodbye My Twenties: When You Take Away the Fluff…
Goodbye My Twenties: When Opportunity Knocks
There seems to be this expectation that starts clinging onto you around your mid or late twenties; you should be on a career path. Its no longer good enough to just have a good that pays the bills. Its time to be a true adult and find a job that will start you down the … Continue reading Goodbye My Twenties: When Opportunity Knocks
Goodbye My Twenties: Never Enough Sleep
Something I’ve noticed since getting into my later twenties is that I’m almost always tired. I’ve tried sleeping greater than 8 hours – it’s too much sleep. I’ve tried sleeping 8 hours – it’s the right amount, but I’m still tired. I’ve tried sleeping less than 8 hours – my body’s response is, “Are you kidding … Continue reading Goodbye My Twenties: Never Enough Sleep
Goodbye My Twenties: Friendship
Today I spent the day with a friend from high school, the only friend from high school I’m close to anymore. Sure, some of them are friends with me on facebook. Once in awhile there may be some exchanges over an interesting post. But out of all the friends I had back then, which was … Continue reading Goodbye My Twenties: Friendship
Goodbye My Twenties: Wedding Planning
This one’s coming a little late, thanks to the chaos that is wedding planning. With the event less than 6 months away, things are getting more serious in terms of timing. To give you an idea of just how much goes into these things, this week I booked a restroom trailer (our venue is an … Continue reading Goodbye My Twenties: Wedding Planning
Goodbye My Twenties: The New Year
Alright, I admit, I’m late on this one. The holidays keep you busy. That’s part of being an adult, right? The holidays are a time of spending money and making food and being busy? Gone are the days of sleeping in late, getting fed throughout the entire holiday week and having presents handed to you … Continue reading Goodbye My Twenties: The New Year